Tracend

I am a man. And I deserve love. So what do I do to get it?

I build up a good body, put on my nice clothes, fix up my hair and drive with my nice car on to the club. Let’s find love…

On the other hand, there are the girls. They want someone to feel safety with them. “Safety” is translated to: Money, Looks, Attitude and ESPECIALLY Power.

They see my appearance and think “he’s got the looks”: strike one.

They see my car and think “he’s got money”: strike two.

If I approach with a million dollar smile and a bossy attitude, and say “come on baby, let’s find a place to talk” – It’s a strike and win match.

I’m gonna get some loving…

Then it’s time for the woman to do her part – to make me choose her to be the one. Well…

She has the looks wearing that slutty dress so I guess that’s…: strike one.

She fucked pretty well so that’s definitely: strike two.

She is from a good family – a.k.a has money, power or fame – so she get’s some bonus points from there too: strike three.

It’s a deal – let’s get married

Is there something wrong with this procedure? There MUST not be because it’s the most common scenario for people of the opposite sex to get to know each other.

Well, you know I can’t help myself thinking otherwise…

In today’s society, it’s all about appearances. How I look on the outside will reflect how much love I’ll get.

Say I don’t want to show off how much money I have – I’m out of the game.

Or I don’t want to play it cool but honest – I’m out of the game.

How come good qualities like honesty and modesty become drawbacks in love. Are we playing the game wrong or is this a screwed up game?

This looks more of a business relationship to me. “I got what you want, You’ve got what I want – let’s put things down and see if it adds up to close the deal.”

I don’t really have a problem with it – It’s an easy way to ditch girls and don’t feel worried about it. “Hey, she just didn’t add up to the deal”…

But what I really find it hard is to really love someone this way. To me true love begins with “I like you for what you are” and not “I love you for what you can give me”.