Tracend

God created all with the same rules and it’s unbelievable that so few
people have realized it in this modern society. There’s no need to make
things harder than they are for no reason.

Man is like a flower
and is raised like growing a plant.

In every phase in a man’s life there are different needs that have
to be fulfilled and it’s raising has to comply with these needs.

He’s like a flower…

- While small it needs all the protection and care it can get.
- As the plant grows, watering is gradually decreased and small
branches are cut off to have a better overall appearance. In that manner
the offspring gets less gentle treatment than before and it is replaced by
advice and orders.
- When the plant becomes a tree , and the person becomes a full-grown
man, the only thing that it needs is a little “watering” once in a while
(a.k.a a good word) to keep it’s spirit “fresh”.

Even exceptions make this theory work. For example:
- You can’t cut off large pieces of a small tree (be too strict with a kid)
or else it won’t grow up to be a healthy “plant”.
- The shaping of big trees is done only under certain circumstances when it is
absolutely necessary, for example when it’s own development stands as a
problem for it’s surrounding entities. In other case it just gets to painful
for the “plant” to put itself in a form that it is not.
- Same goes for watering (a.k.a. gentle treatment). If you water it too much
it will rot, if it receives too little it will remain undeveloped.

Having this in mind I think it’s not that hard to be a good parent, if you
stick to your responsibilities in every given situation of course. It’s like
doing gardening…

Plants don’t forgive negligence and the truth is that neither do humans.