People are accustomed to their reality – they get along with people that are like them (or substitute them) and avoid all others. Everyone lifts up their walls and so did I for a long time. I was concerned though that I might be shutting myself out of opportunities and thought it might be a [...]
Most communities are boring – from a distance they are like gray puzzles made out of rectangular pieces. Needless to despair, there is always a hidden beauty, waiting to be discovered. You may sense it and you may have witnessed other people confirm it but still be uncertain if you can find it. Some people [...]
You still don’t get it do you? When I am happy I am really happy and when I am sad I am really sad… It’s not about being one way or another. Change is good. Feeling is good. Tension for what you’ll experience next is GOOD. That’s how I choose to live my life. Under [...]
This may be common knowledge for some, but for me it came as a surprise to realize that the words that we use to badmouth people can actually have a meaning. Coming from a strict family I was taught that curses are simply “bad” and that I shouldn’t phrase them, repeat them or even think [...]
I grew up feeling not wanted. I was raised in an environment constantly outcast. Unmercifully controlled by the fear of acceptance – all smocking mirrors to keep me grounded. No more, not again – not this time around. Went on a long journey – trying to find me. Just received denial and rejection along the [...]